What to expect when moving into residential care
Moving into an aged care home is a big life change. Even when you know it’s the right decision, it’s normal to be relieved, uncertain and curious about what’s next. The person moving might have questions about independence and routines, and family members may wonder how quickly their loved one will adjust.
Knowing what to expect can take some of the unknown away. It varies from person to person but the first few days are normally about settling in, getting to know new faces and gradually finding a routine that works.
Practical prep will be undertaken before the move
Before move day, the aged care team will need information about the new resident’s health and medical conditions, medications, mobility, dietary requirements, personal preferences and daily routines. This helps staff to see the whole person, not just the medical needs.
Families may also need to arrange for clothing, toiletries, important documents and meaningful belongings. Start with pieces you already know and love, that bring you ease and don’t take up too much space. Favourite photos, a well-used blanket or a familiar work of art can quickly make a space feel personal.
Make sure clothes and other belongings are clearly labelled and ask the home what furniture, electrical appliances and decorations you can bring in.
The first day can feel rushed
Moving day might mean meeting new people, paperwork, unpacking, and a lot of information. Staff will help the resident to settle in and explain how everything works.
Set realistic expectations. Nobody has to memorise every name or know the whole routine right away. Moving is hard work, so take time to rest.
Even if the move was a positive experience, it can be hard for family members to say goodbye. It is more reassuring to bid a calm and warm goodbye than to prolong the act of leaving, for nobody wants to go. Let your loved one know when you will call or visit next so they have something familiar to look forward to.
Treatment will be individualised
Aged care should not be a one-size-fits-all experience. Staff will work with the resident and, where appropriate, their family or representatives, to establish what support they need and the way in which they want to live.
This can include help with personal care, medication, meals or mobility. It should also be a reflection of personal habits and preferences, from waking routines and hobbies to cultural, spiritual or family traditions.
Care needs can change so plans should be reviewed and revised over time. Residents and families should be able to ask questions, share information or speak up when things aren’t going as expected.
It takes time to find a new beat
Some people settle in quickly, others take several weeks or more. Both are completely natural responses.
The corridors may seem strange at first and there will be new people to meet. A friendly greeting, a usual lunch seat or a favourite activity can, in time, become a reassuring part of the day.
There will be ups and downs too. “One day a resident can enjoy an activity and the next day feel homesick. Settling in isn’t always a linear process, and a bad day doesn’t mean you made a mistake moving.
Relationships and activities can help develop a sense of belonging
Activities can help residents to continue with their interests, to try something new, to spend time with others and to feel part of the life of the home.
You don’t have to sign up for all of it at once. Gentle encouragement is often more effective than pressure. Someone who doesn’t like a big group might like a quiet conversation, music, gardening, or a smaller activity.
Relations also develop gradually. Familiar staff, fellow residents and regular visitors can all help a new environment start to feel like a community.
Family engagement still counts
Moving into care shifts the caring relationship, but it doesn’t end it. Family and friends still provide something very important: history, companionship and access to life outside the home.
Visits don’t need to be fancy. A cup of tea, a short walk, or just sitting together can be meaningful. Families can also help staff learn about a resident’s preferences and life history.
Given patience, communication and the right support, an aged care home can be so much more than a place where care is provided. It can be a familiar, friendly place where a person feels safe, respected and at home.
Thinking about residential aged care for yourself, or a loved one? The team at Finley Regional Care are here to answer your questions and help you understand what the next steps are. To contact the team or for more information visit www.finleyregionalcare.com.au
